Surviving the Chemo Cocktails

Give me a good chocolate martini and I can tell you about my twenties.  Give me Taxol and Carboplatin and I can tell you about my almost mid-thirties.  One is better than the other that's for sure!  *Hint it's the chocolate martini and Nicky Blaine's Cocktail Lounge in Indianapolis makes the best martinis! My husband and I walked out… Continue reading Surviving the Chemo Cocktails

The Club No One Wants To Be In

Reality.  It creeps up like a serious you know what.  Reality being that cancer is a club that no one wants to be in.  Today I learned that someone I have followed in the journey for a while entered hospice.  Hard ugly cry.  When I say that there is a raw that will never go away for…… Continue reading The Club No One Wants To Be In

Finding The Middle

A number of writers have written about John McCain and their pieces of what not to say to someone who has cancer.  My opinion on the matter is that you need to find the middle ground.  Each person is different and should be treated as such.  Some people embrace the fighter spirit, clothe themselves in…… Continue reading Finding The Middle